Personal Growth

A simple trick to lower stress and be more present

December 17, 2014

IMG_3684It can be so easy to rush from one thing to the next with a million things on our minds, constantly thinking, “What time is it? What time is it?”

And not only is it easy to be busy and rushed, it’s often worn as a badge of honor. “Look at me, I’m so important.” Or, “You think you’re busy, let me tell you my story…”

But this only gives us a false sense of significance and leads to stress and not being present. For me, I need to make a conscious effort not to “start” work before I actually start work. To not be checking the clock and thinking of all I want to get done while I’m listening to my three year old.

Next time you find yourself obsessively checking the time, change the question you’re asking from “What time is it?” to “What’s this time for?”

You’ll be reminded of what’s really important and be able to be more fully present.

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  • Ann Musico December 17, 2014 at 4:03 pm

    Michael I love how you tweaked that question!

    • Michael Good December 17, 2014 at 8:21 pm

      Hey thanks, Ann. Hope you’re having a great Christmas season!

      • Ann Musico December 18, 2014 at 5:05 am

        I am Michael! I’m sure things are exciting in your house with 2 little ones. I’m happy to be able to have all my kids here as well as my dad and brother. Wishing you and Claudia a blessed Christmas and new year!

  • Joseph Lalonde December 18, 2014 at 6:05 am

    Wow Michael, is that you and your boy together? He’s getting so big.

    • Michael Good December 18, 2014 at 10:29 am

      That it is, Joe. I know, it catches me by surprise sometimes!