What is indecision anyway? And what exactly happens in our hearts when we are indecisive? How do we make a decision? Why do we need to make decisions? Is indecision really so bad? I can’t decide.
The Free Dictionary describes indecision this way: Reluctance or an inability to make up one’s mind; irresolution
Examples:
1: indecision – doubt concerning two or more possible alternatives or courses of action; “His indecision was only momentary but the opportunity was lost.”
2: indecision – the trait of irresolution; a lack of firmness of character or purpose; “The king’s incurable indecisiveness caused turmoil in his court.”
Opportunity lost, turmoil, and lack of character? Does indecision really go this deep, is it really this important?
I want some answers! I decided to see what some other wise people had to say on the subject.
I will leave you with 21 quotes. I think the following words will change your life! They have mine! 😉
21 quotes that will change your life
1.“The indispensable first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: decide what you want.” – Ben Stein
2.“If you don’t design your own life plan, chances are you’ll fall into someone else’s plan. And guess what they have planned for you? Not much.” – Jim Rohn
3.“If you chase two rabbits, both will escape.”- Unknown author
4.“Sir, What is the secret of your success?” a reporter asked a bank president.
“Two words.”
“And, sir, what are they?”
“Good decisions.”
“And how do you make good decisions?”
“One word.”
“And sir, what is that?”
“Experience.”
“And how do you get Experience?”
“Two words.”
“And, sir, what are they?”
“Bad decisions.”
– Unknown author
5. “There is no more miserable human being than one in whom nothing is habitual but indecision, and for whom the lighting of every cigar, the drinking of every cup, the time of rising and going to bed every day, and the beginning of every bit of work, are subjects of express volitional deliberation.” ~William James
6.“One of the main causes of depression is that we have avoided decisions in our past.”- JJ Dewey
7.“He has sat on the fence so long that the iron has entered his soul.”- David Lloyd George
8.“Greatness is not a function of circumstance. Greatness, it turns out, is largely a matter of conscious choice, and discipline.” –Jim Collins
9.“I have been impressed with the urgency of doing. Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Being willing is not enough; we must do.” – Leonardo da Vinci
10.“The search for the perfect venture can turn into procrastination. Your idea may or may not have merit. The key is to get started.” – Unknown author
11.“If you have accomplished all that you have planned for yourself, you have not planned enough.” – Edward Everett Hale
12.“If you put off everything ‘till you’re sure of it, you’ll get nothing done.” – Norman Vincent Peale
13.“What I emphasize is for people to make choices based not on fear, but on what really gives them a sense of fulfillment.” – Pauline Rose Chance
14.“Nearly everything you do is of no importance, but it is important that you do it.” – Gandhi
15.“The percentage of mistakes in quick decisions is no greater than in long-drawn-out vacillations, and the effect of decisiveness itself “makes things go” and creates confidence.”- Anne O’Hare McCormick
16.“So what do we do? Anything. Something. So long as we just don’t sit there. If we screw it up, start over. Try something else. If we wait until we’ve satisfied all the uncertainties, it may be too late.”- Lee Lacocca
17.“When confronted with two courses of action, I jot down on a piece of paper all the arguments in favor of each one, then on the opposite side I write the arguments against each one. Then by weighing the arguments pro and con and cancelling them out, one against the other, I take the course indicated by what remains.”- Benjamin Franklin
18.“High achievers spot rich opportunities swiftly, make big decisions quickly and move into action immediately. Follow these principles and you can make your dreams come true.”- Robert H. Schuller
19.“Changing our decision sets up a bad habit. It reinforces decision-making as an expression of bewilderment and ignorance, instead of wisdom and freedom.” – Sakyong Mipham
20.“People who fail to accumulate money, without exception, have the habit of reaching decisions, if at all, very slowly, and of changing these decisions quickly and often.” – Napoleon Hill
21.“He that leaveth nothing to chance will do few things ill, but he will do very few things.” -George Savile
(Plus, a free bonus one for laughs)
22. “Indecision may or may not be my problem.” -Jimmy Buffett
Question: Have you decided to be decisive yet?
Just what I was talking about yesterday-indecision! I loved the quotes, especially #1, 8, 9, 12 and 17. I’m ususally very decisive about things in my life so when faced with any indecisiveness, I don’t like it. I am one that usually makes decisions quick-not always for the good but always a good learning process even if it wasn’t the best decision. This weekend I’m staying with my elderly mom who has dementia so my sister, who is her caregiver, can go on vacation. While there, I will do #17 and see what I get! Great post.
God bless you and your sister, Donna. #17 is how my oldest son chose between the 4 colleges he was accepted to!
Awesome Donna! I’m glad you will have some time to be able to think through things! So necessary! Hope you found peace and clarity!
Haha Claudia that’s a great list! I love every one of those quotations! It made me think about James 1:6 & 7 – “But
when you ask him, be sure that your faith is in God alone. Do not
waver, for a person with divided loyalty is as unsettled as a wave of
the sea that is blown and tossed by the wind. Such people should not expect to receive anything from the Lord.” When we keep changing our minds and decisions almost always the result is – NOTHING! It’s like when my daughter was in elementary school and had a multiple choice test. Pretty much every time she went back and changed her first answer, it was wrong. I have learned to trust my first instinct and use peace as a barometer – and once I’ve done whatever research I need to and gotten advice – I try and decide quickly and then just go with that. Joyce Meyer talks about trying to decide if doing something was from God and she said she kept going back and forth afraid to make a mistake. Finally God told her – just do it, if you make a mistake, I correct your path! Sometimes we worry too much!
Well said Ann. Mistakes are how we learn if we will.
Great verse, Ann. Thanks for sharing!
Indeed Ann! Sometimes we do worry too much, I agree!
Thanks for that verse and story… powerful and encouraging as always with your stories! 😉
I’m getting much better at making decisions quickly as I get older. I think it’s because I’ve realized that most decisions aren’t life threatening, they can be corrected if need be. I don’t have long to live to be held captive by Analysis Paralysis.
I’ll add #23 to the list. A clever line from Rush’s song “Freewill” – “If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice!”
Great quote, Michael. I think your approach is great. Most are NOT life threatening!
I’ve gotten a lot better with making quicker decisions over the past few months. Once I publicly commit to something, it’s a lot harder to go back and risk look foolish and losing credibility.
Totally true Jody!
What helped you become a quicker decision maker?
Being unemployed and homeless helps with making faster decision 🙂
Hah! Yeah, I guess that’d make a difference!
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