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This Is Why I Want To Be Your Friend

May 14, 2012

I never knew likeability played such a huge role in how the world goes around. Hey, everybody knows they enjoy being around people they like, but I don’t think many of us consider why, or for that matter, try to be more likeable ourselves.

Some people might say working on being more likeable is caring too much about what other people think and working to please others. I disagree. I think being likeable is an absolute necessity for successful living. Here is why.

Think of it this way. You go in for an interview. You dress in a blue shirt and dark grey pants. Your shoes are shined to a perfect gloss. Your teeth are freshly whitened and glow when you smile. Your stylish leather Saddleback bag is draped over your shoulder and you feel great! Your introduction speech is perfectly memorized; your resume, flawless. You are confident you will get the job.

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Following The Music – IDC #16

May 10, 2012

This evening I took a walk in the park with Jude. We walked and talked and he swung his chubby little legs over the edge of the stroller. Most enchanting.

As we walked through the alley way back towards our house, I heard singing.

The singing drew me closer and I realized it was coming from a church just down the street from our house. That was it, my curiosity was peaked, I had to go in and listen to the music!

I stood outside the red doors of the church envisioning Jude and I walking in on who knows what and my head made up all sorts of scenarios as to why it would be uncomfortable and I shouldn’t go in. This made me want to go in all the more. I just needed to know what would happen – maybe something cool, maybe nothing at all.

I walked in and took this video in the foyer. We then entered the sanctuary and Jude and I basked in the music. It felt great to step into the unknown.

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This video is part of the I Don’t Care Project.

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Chris Guillebeau’s $100 Startup Book Tour

May 9, 2012

This evening, I went to New York for Chris Guillebeau’s $100 Startup book tour. The meetup was free and only a Chinatown bus ride away, so I jumped at the opportunity to meet Chris and the others that would come out to see him.

I’m certainly glad I did as I came away with some new ideas and was inspired to kick things with my business up a notch. Not only that, I got to meet some people doing amazing things with businesses of their own.

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How Doing The Right Thing Saved Us A Boatload Of Cash

May 8, 2012

Claudia and I recently completed our tax return for last year. Yes, it’s well past tax day and there are reasons for which we didn’t do it on time and needed to file an extension. It was a stressful time and one where we had to trust that everything would workout even though we weren’t sure how.

These are the two main reasons we procrastinated with our taxes:

1. Our returns got complicated. Up until this year, I had always completed our returns myself. But now with a business, a house, and a baby, I realized I was not the best person to complete the return.

2. I was wrestling with doing the right thing. With running your own business, there are more areas where, if you want, you can finagle the numbers a little to make a big difference in the bottom line. No one would know.

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Never Thought I Would Be Addicted

May 7, 2012

I’m addicted to audio books!

I can’t help myself! Michael got 5 out from the library the other day and I had to get 3 more when I stopped by the library with Jude. I was going just to, “Check out what they had… you know?”

 

It is amazing. I can listen to the life of Abraham Lincoln while taking Jude for a walk. Learn how to be a better parent while driving to get groceries and learn the skills to becoming more likable, while folding laundry.

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